I am so sorry! "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing so that by the power of the holy spirit, you may abound in hope!" (Romans 15:13)
Part two of my post: If you take into consideration that some of us have genuinely used Christmas as a way to remember Jesus birth (given it may or may not be on the exact date of Jesus's birth) it can be a good thing. It is also a good thing because family gets together! Look up Matthew 18:20
I just want to point out that, when somebody actually celebrates Christmas and Easter and truly try to make it a time for family and remembering Jesus, then it, in my opinion, is a good thing. On the other hand, halloween is downright evil! Halloween is a devious trick of the enemy, a stumbling block for many people.